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Discord will require a face scan or ID for full access next month


in reply to mr_MADAFAKA

Considering the recent "third-party" data breach cases...
in reply to Artwork

More info for those unfamiliar:


Of the accounts impacted globally, we have identified approximately 70,000 users that may have had government-ID photos exposed, which our vendor used to review age-related appeals.
in reply to mr_MADAFAKA

Finally my chance to quit?
Idk
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in reply to mr_MADAFAKA

I’m never doing this. I’ll pay someone else to verify my account before I upload my dox with these assholes.

I’m fine switching to an alternative, but I have seen no gaming companies linking anything else for their official “forums”

in reply to mr_MADAFAKA

I don't trust discord with what little I formation I've gave them so far. Definitely not giving them my ID or a scan of my face.
in reply to mechanicalAnt

But they pinky promise the face scan is not facial recognition and that it's immediately deleted and never leaves your device.
in reply to mr_MADAFAKA

Users who aren’t verified as adults will not be able to access age-restricted servers and channels, won’t be able to speak in Discord’s livestream-like “stage” channels, and will see content filters for any content Discord detects as graphic or sensitive.


Shrug

I'm not using discord for porn, so I'm not going to lose sleep. Will simply live with a "teen" account until my groups migrate to a better service.

But you'll get my biometrics from my cold dead hands.

They will also get warning prompts for friend requests from potentially unfamiliar users, and DMs from unfamiliar users will be automatically filtered into a separate inbox.


GOOD

Crazy they didn't implement this years ago. Discord is bloated with fake user spam.

in reply to UnderpantsWeevil

GOOD

Crazy they didn’t implement this years ago. Discord is bloated with fake user spam.


it's easy to see how they'll manipulate this to make you think that their pro-zionist bots are actual people.

in reply to UnderpantsWeevil

So I get a free spam filter for not verifying? Guess I'm never verifying then, lol.
in reply to this

My initial thought too. Good. At least until they catch on and make some excuse for needing "teens" IDs too.
in reply to UnderpantsWeevil

The last point is already implemented, and as someone who regularly has to get DMs from strangers, I have those options off. I guess now I can’t do that.
in reply to mr_MADAFAKA

Revolt! your time has come (though it has been renamed to Stoat; a name I very much dislike.
in reply to VoxAliorum

If that is true then that is much better than revolt because that kind of name will make the majority of people roll their eyes and pass it up.

So while it hard to get your friends to join a different platform imagine how much harder it would be to get them to join “revolt”. Its super edgy

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in reply to NamedUser

Well, I guess that 95% of all non-native speakers don't know what a stoat is. So it is much harder to connect to/remember it.
in reply to VoxAliorum

Limited Linux support (no repo or flatpak pkgs, not even aur) and tbh im not so sure how long they will continue to exist
in reply to kittenzrulz123

First open source android app I've seen that requires Google Play Store.
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in reply to kittenzrulz123

tbh. I wasn't aware of this. So far I only used it in the browser
in reply to kittenzrulz123

isn't it just a webapp? should be trivial to package as a 'standalone program'
in reply to Goodlucksil

Usability is good in my opinion. They’ve spent a lot of time on the UI over the past couple years. The mobile Element X apps are excellent now IMO.
But the two things that prevent matrix/Element from being a good discord replacement are:

  1. No Mumble-like voice chat. They have Zoom-like conference calling now, but no voice channels.
  2. Search is either non-existent (mobile clients) or is awful. It’s somehow worse than Discord’s search! I know it’s because the search needs to work on-device because of E2EE, but unfortunately it’s still a minus point vs Discord.
in reply to Untold1707

Honestly, the best solution to 1 may be to simply deploy mumble in addition to matrix (or other chat apps).
in reply to moonpiedumplings

Seconding this, just use mumble. It's self-hosted free and open source software, easy on resources, provides very low latency, and it's very stable and reliable.

The client might look a little dated but I still love it. I don't care for stupid electron apps, which every modern application seems to be.

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in reply to mr_MADAFAKA

in other news: next month i will be attempting to bypass discord's "AI" powered security features. I expect to overcome them in 4 minutes with a pic of an ID i found on the internet
in reply to EstraDoll [she/her, he/him]

im hoping i can use an ai altered image of stalin or some other communist leader like that lmao
in reply to mr_MADAFAKA

I hope for once people would get together and drop Discord so that Discord would have to reverse this policy. So often, we the customers really have the power if we get together and act together. All these social networks are nothing without the contributions of the customers.
in reply to RotatingParts

without the contributions of the ~~customers~~


Without the contributions of the product.

As the adage goes, if you're not paying for it (and often even when you are), you're not the customer.

in reply to mr_MADAFAKA

However, some users may not have to go through either form of age verification. Discord is also rolling out an age inference model that analyzes metadata like the types of games a user plays, their activity on Discord, and behavioral signals like signs of working hours or the amount of time they spend on Discord.>
in reply to tehWrapper

that's probably not much better though. nothing good will come from discord scanning and judging everything we say on it.
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in reply to mr_MADAFAKA

Does there exist an alternative that has both a desktop (WIN/Linux) client and a phone (android/iphone) client?
in reply to PowerCrazy

XMPP, Conversations is a Nice Android client.
in reply to mnemonicmonkeys

do you know if stoat's ios client good enough? last i tried the android one was also very basic.
in reply to hexagonwin

I don't use ios and I don't know what your standard of "good enough" is.

I've tried ouy the android one back when it was named Revolt and I though it was on par with Discord from a few years ago before they added in all the stickers and games, so I thought it was "good enough"

Just try it and see

in reply to mr_MADAFAKA

New to the whole privacy space, what should I start moving my social group to that's like discord but not doing this?
in reply to Postmortal_Pop

can someone on a server that isnt defederated from lemmy.world send this comment for me?

copied from earlier comment above:
teamspeak (although i dont think they have teamspeak 6 server files available yet?), riot! (now called stoat apparently?), mumble, matrix, and jitsi meet

oh yeah if you're ok seperating the chat and voice app i really like deltachat for chatting in the group

in reply to Carl [he/him]

we'd probably be better off with a federated/foss alternative.
in reply to ☂️-

Mumble (I've installed a server a while ago and had no fucking idea how to do anything with it, certainly not to the point where I'd feel confident to invite people to it as a discord alternative)
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in reply to mr_MADAFAKA

Lol, no thanks. I deleted this trash years ago and wish companies would stop using it for tech and customer support. “Join our discord channel!” - no.
in reply to mr_MADAFAKA

discord.com/press-releases/upd…

Of the accounts impacted globally, we have identified approximately 70,000 users that may have had government-ID photos exposed
in reply to mr_MADAFAKA

Dude my dnd campaign is run on Discord what the fuck. Do I need to start hosting open source voice and video chat?
in reply to MeetMeAtTheMovies [they/them]

it's fine as long as you dont have the server marked as 18+

also, supposedly they will be having an ai determine people who are 18+ so you might not even need to upload anything

still, if this leaves too sour of a taste in your mouth the alternatives i can think of off the top of my head are: teamspeak (although i dont think they have teamspeak 6 server files available yet?), riot! (now called stoat apparently?), mumble, matrix, and jitsi meet

oh yeah if you're ok seperating the chat and voice app i really like deltachat for chatting in the group

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in reply to PleasantPeasant

Teamspeak 6 self hosted servers are in open beta, and is a comparable experience in quality/features to people looking for a Discord replacement. All the open source Discord clones don't have group screen sharing available yet.
in reply to mr_MADAFAKA

Yeah, you go ahead & do that, & watch how many people will jump ship to other alternatives while you lose a lot of money & subscriptions, especially when you’ve been hacked before.

People have found other alternatives to TikTok, & they’ll do the same with Discord.

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in reply to SpaceCrystal

i wouldn't be so optimistic. normies have a tendency to accept quite a lot.
in reply to SpaceCrystal

I mean, you're not wrong, but have you seen what those alternatives were?
in reply to mr_MADAFAKA

We need something like what Lemmy is to Reddir, except for discord. A decentralized application with multiple instances that users can join.

I have a discord server of about ~1K members, and would love to spin up a docker container to host my own instance that users can join. Chat, voice/ video calls, video streaming, etc. I'd love to support a FOSS project like this. Maybe even have E2E while we're at it!

in reply to Geki

Closest I can think of is Matrix. Element isn't bad.
in reply to pucker4676

Matrix is the way, and element is the best so far, but it needs more work.
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in reply to Geki

Stoat (formerly called Revolt) is potentially that. I tried it a while back and it was still rough around the edges, but the potential was there. Open source and has potential for self hosting.

Stoat.chat

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in reply to borrowed_atoms

Clickable link for anyone curious:

stoat.chat

in reply to Geki

Good old Teamspeak. Everyone can host his own server.
in reply to mr_MADAFAKA

is there a practical way to delete all your messages at once?
in reply to ☂️-

personally i'd also backup the messages before deleting, this works well github.com/Tyrrrz/DiscordChatE…
in reply to mr_MADAFAKA

Well this is horrid. Must we really all go back to TeamSpeak?
in reply to मुक्त

We left it mostly because there were better services out there + the UI was considered outdated and all. But personally, I'd rather take the outdated UI than have my data stolen.
in reply to मुक्त

teamspeak 4 felt like it was in the stone age while discord had a bunch of cool ass features for chatting outside of voice. it also was much more appealing to casuals by being free to use and super easy to set up your own server, whereas setting up your own teamspeak server involved portforwarding and whatnot that turns off the vast majority of "normies"
in reply to mr_MADAFAKA

On-device processing: Video selfies for facial age estimation never leave a user’s device.

Quick deletion: Identity documents submitted to our vendor partners are deleted quickly— in most cases, immediately after age confirmation.


Still a no for me for now, but a bit misleading: discord.com/press-releases/dis…

in reply to mr_MADAFAKA

I'm not against age restrictions, but letting every site brew their own method is a really bad idea. I'm not going to upload my legal ID to every random site; that's a recipe for identity theft, and it's a really bad idea to teach people that that's normal or acceptable.

And age guessing through facial recognition is incredibly unreliable. My 16 year old son has already been accepted as 18+ somewhere. I had a full moustache at 14. Others are blessed with a babyface well into their 30s.

The only right way to do this, is if governments provide their citizens with an eID that any site can ask "is this person 18+?" and get an accurate answer without any other identifiable info. And if you don't want the government to know what sites you visit, have sites route the request through a proxy.

But instead everybody's got to cobble together their own improvised system that we just have to trust blindly is not going to sell our data.

in reply to mcv

And if you don't want the government to know what sites you visit, have sites route the request through a proxy.


Actually, no on the fly communication with the issuer is required for selective disclose.
You just need a signed document with individually salted hashes of different properties and you can create a zero knowledge proof non-interactively. Zero knowledge meaning that truely nothing but the disclosed property (age > 18, County == DE, or whatever) is communicated to anyone.

Theres a lot of other cool stuff that can be done with zero knowledge digital identity wallets. You could for example hash your pubkey together with the service providers pk and disclose that as a per service ID, but not reveal your pk. This allows linkability within one service (as a login method for example) while preventing cross service linkability.

in reply to M1k3y

That prevents the site from knowing your identity, but I'm not convinced it prevents the government from knowing you visit the site. The government could keep track of which document corresponds to which individual whenever they issue / sign it.

So if the government mandated that each signed proof of "age>18" was stored by the service and mapped to each account (to validate their proof), then the government could request the service to provide them copy of the proof and then cross-check from their end which particular individual is linked to it.

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in reply to Ferk

The reason why it works is a bit complicated, but basically the trick is that the signatures are not immutable. Given a valid signature, it is possible to create a new valid signature over the same content that is not linkable to the original one. This means that it is still possible to derive, what authority signed the document, but the authority cannot know in which transaction it has signed that specific document.
in reply to M1k3y

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in reply to mcv

and it’s a really bad idea to teach people that that’s normal or acceptable.


This is a point so few people mention. Normalising having to give up personal information online is such a dangerous thing to do and companies/governments that enforce this shit are setting people up to be scammed

in reply to mcv

if you don’t want the government to know what sites you visit, have sites route the request through a proxy.


I feel a proxy would not really make much of a difference. If the government keeps a mapping of which eID corresponds to each real person from their end (which they would do if they want to know what sites you visit) then they can simply request the services (and/or intermediaries) to provide account mapping of the eIDs (and they could mandate by law those records are kept, like they often do with ISPs and their IP addresses). The service might not know who that eID belongs to.. but the government can know it, if they want.

The government needs to want to protect your privacy. If the government really wants to know what sites you visit, there's no reason why they would want to provide you with a eID that is truly anonymous at all levels and that isn't really linked to you, not even in state-owned databases.

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in reply to Ferk

Of course, a government has many ways they can legislate your rights, freedom and privacy away. But if you want to do this in a way that preserves privacy, this is how you do it.

Of course the government knows who you are; they have to. They issue your ID, and that makes them the only organisation that can issue your eID. But a government that serves its people would provide this an a service, with the proxy, to ensure privacy is respected.

And of course with a warrant they can and should be able to demand access to the proxy's or the website's logs. But only with a warrant. That is the bar that the government should always have to clear before they can get access to any citizen's privacy.

in reply to mcv

I agree that a government that wants privacy can actually do it in a way that ensures privacy. That's also what I was saying.

My point was that this is up to the government, and no amount of "route the request through a proxy" would patch that up, that's not gonna help this case. Because this is not something that's tracked in the networking layer, it's in the application layer.

If the government wants to protect privacy, they can do it without you needing to use proxies, and if the government wants to see what sites you visit using these certificates, they can do it even if you were to use proxies.

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in reply to Ferk

If the proxy is independent, I don't see how the government can know what the requesting site is. They can only see the proxy. I don't mean a standard network proxy of course, but a proxy for the entire request. That's probably the source of our misunderstanding.
in reply to mcv

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in reply to Ferk

Obviously the government knows it's you. That's the whole purpose. But they don't know the site that's requesting this, if the proxy hides that from them.
in reply to mcv

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in reply to Ferk

But getting that information from the USP or the site would require a warrant. Not to mention that the site doesn't have to know your real identity either.

And the whole point of this exercise is to ensure that you don't have to provide any document to the site.

What I mean by the site that's requesting this, is exactly that: you need to prove to a site that you're above a certain age. For that, the site redirects you to the proxy that redirects you to the eID site, with a request to confirm that you're above a certain age.

The site has fulfilled its legal obligation to check your age, but doesn't have to know your identity, and the government doesn't have to know what site you're visiting.

I feel like you're misunderstanding the scenario we're discussing.

in reply to mcv

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in reply to Ferk

in reply to mcv

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in reply to Jimmycrackcrack

The same as Discord (IRC with a fancy GUI) but with the fact your data is unconsentionally sent to an intelligence agency for analysis.
in reply to typhoon

Fractal is not multiplatform (i.e. isn't available on Android and on iOS) and Matrix can be confusing to people not already familiar with it.

And no, a wall of text explaining what Matrix is won't help since most of Discord's users are teenagers with a very short attention span that don't read much (unless they're forced to by school).

::: spoiler Potential solution, may be controversial.
Just add a vertical video with Minecraft parkour or with CS surf on the bottom and a half naked woman from a freelance platform explaining what it is.
:::

There are also Element and SchildiChat as alternative clients.

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in reply to mr_MADAFAKA

Like I mentioned in a similar post, please look at this alternative: stoat.chat/
in reply to Freakazoid

Seams cool, but why not matrix since matrix has different instances you can chose from.
in reply to pineapple

forgot to add that one, my other post did include Matrix as well :)
in reply to Freakazoid

Does this still require you to 'call' people to be in a voice channel? Or is it now similar to discord in that you join a channel and can hear anyone in it?
in reply to mr_MADAFAKA

Have not used this so I can't speak to their viability, but there's also @root
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