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Ghosted After a Job Interview? Report the Company


I doubt this will take off like, say, GlassDoor, but if it catches on, could be an interesting resource to make oneself feel better. Orders of magnitude more data are needed for this to be useful.
in reply to Powderhorn

The moment you realize a company is only a machine concerned with turning a profit and not an actual person you interact with and expect politeness and humanity out of, you'll stop feeling offended by companies ghosting you.

When a company sends you a letter to tell you your application has been rejected, it's only a courtesy extended to you by a HUMAN HR person who actually cares about behaving decently, not by the company. So enjoy the gesture when it happens, but simply ignore it when it doesn't.

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in reply to ExtremeDullard

Human HR person is about as courteous as a cop. And they are fucking useless
in reply to Powderhorn

  1. Every company does this. So this will be great if you want a database of companies that exist.
  2. When you get a job, do you go back and notify all the companies that you interviewed with? Because I don't.

My advice: get as many interviews as you can. When you're done, forget about them and move on to the next one.

in reply to artyom

When I get a job, I do notify those that gave me an offer. If a company has already rejected me then of course I'm not emailing them back to say "yeah, well I'm rejecting you!"
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in reply to unmagical

I do notify those that gave me an offer


And the ones that didn't?

in reply to artyom

Well then I'm still waiting for them to carryout their side of the bargain. I submitted an application and/or attended an interview and am waiting for them to make a decision. Obviously that ball's not in my court otherwise I'd just tell them "I'm working here now!"
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in reply to unmagical

But it's not, because you got a job, and thus are no longer interested/eligible.
in reply to artyom

Not remotely true. Having a job does not remove you from the job market. If I accept an offer for my 5th most desired position and a month later receive an offer for my 1st, I am well within my rights, means, and desire to just switch again.
in reply to unmagical

So then isn't the reverse also true? Just because the company has filled the position doesn't mean they can't change their mind? So they don't need to tell you?
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in reply to artyom

The ball's still in their court. They are welcome to change their mind, but they should conclude the immediate interaction. A "we have filled the position at this time. We'll be in touch if anything changes." message would be sufficient and easy to automate. They just don't for ... reasons.
in reply to unmagical

otherwise I’d just tell them “I’m working here now!”


Can be a surprisingly effective tactic sometimes.

Just show up for work, start working. Later, complain to HR that you don't seem to have gotten your onboarding materials, and your first paycheck is late. With a little luck, the HR person will think you were omitted due to an error in the system and they'll manually add you. And then, congrats -- you've got a job!

in reply to OwOarchist

Cats excel at this. I'm not sure I could pull it off at work.

Where I have to go ...

Because a cat adopted me. Again.

in reply to Powderhorn

I have MULTIPLE spreadsheets I've kept from every job search just for this day LMAO
in reply to Powderhorn

in reply to altphoto

One of our candidates turned out to be a nice guy but extremely lazy and entitled

Not only do you have to do the hard work that 20 people used to do before the pandemic lay offs


Is the guy properly lazy, or is he just not willing to handle the workload of 20 people? I'm a hard worker, but only up to a certain point. If I joined a small team that had one employee trying to handle the work that used to be split between 20 employees, I wouldn't exactly be inspired to go above and beyond my post/pay grade; I'd be concerned that no amount of extra effort I put in would ultimately matter because the team is fundamentally understaffed.

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in reply to rudyharrelson

It's employee owned. But it's still under a management structure. There's a little nepo prick gunning for my job. Yeah life is good. I haven't quit because I want to keep feeding my kids. It's a tough position.
in reply to altphoto

They think with whatever the fuck makes you think of people as "resources".


Yeah. They change their own titles, but I worry it's still the same -- they just remembered the 'human' part of 'human resources' is merely an adjective.

in reply to Powderhorn

That's why I like applying to government positions because they have like a tracker and shows you every step, and you get a response when the position closed and updates after interviews so you know your status
in reply to xylol

You at least know where you stand thats for sure.
in reply to Powderhorn

There’s no reason in these days of automated systems why they can’t send out a “thanks, but not this time” email, text or whatever.
in reply to Codpiece

I actually ususually get that. Once in awhile its from an email where I can reply thank you for your time.
in reply to Powderhorn

Friends and i have been sharing the same excel doc for years now. It has all the companies we have all applied to and thier respective process. Its helped weed out bad companies in our area for years.

Wr have been talking qbout making an app for years...but its easier to just do a control f or sort. And its been close to 20 years ish. Now its a libre office sheet. Its beem through many iterations.

in reply to mesa

Local subreddits used to have lists of things like top restaurants or little known museums etc. if your area has a community on Lemmy you might be able to contact the mods and see if they'd be interested in a sidebar link for it or something.
in reply to mesa

This is awesome but it can never have an impact on hiring practices. Making this information public can change behaviors, given the data can’t be cooked.
in reply to partofthevoice

I mean there is a VERY small pool of people that are good at their jobs and in our area of expertise. And once one of us gets a good job, we usually all try to go to that company within reason.
in reply to mesa

Fair enough. You guys can basically collude to control the labor supply, if your niche is small enough. All the more power to you; I wish more of the labor force had guns like that.
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in reply to Powderhorn

It would be awesome if you could localize the results. Knowing that Microsoft is one of the worst offenders helps me very little, because I live in bumfuck nowhere. However, I bet I’d find some useful stuff at bumfucknowhere.didtheyghostyou…
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