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Which Email?


A while back I started on this journey, and as most people did, I've had my ups and downs and went through the learning curve, I've now reached the point of so much knowledge that I truly know, I dont know shit. People of Lemmy I come to you today because idk what to do, I recently made a free account with proton, their subscription is fairly cheap so idm paying the monthly tier of 15GB so I can have control over ending it whenever I please instead of being locked in for a year. Now, I heard about Tuta but never dived much into it, i know Proton has had its controversies (Don't be shy of reminding me of what they were), but what are my options here truly for a proper FOSS email provider? I can negate the free part for a reasonable price, but truly private AND secure is a must.

Self Hosting isn't an option yet for personal reasons unless it's completely free.

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in reply to snowydroopz

I self hosted email for years and it did take a fair bit of maintenance. Since moving to Mailcow all I have to do is keep it updated (subscribe to their telegram channel for updates) and that's it. It's never broken or needed maintenance other than that.
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in reply to alibloke

Can you tell me about mailcow's pros and cona based on your experience?
in reply to snowydroopz

Cons: some knowledge of Docker is required
A static IP is helpful but not a requirement
If your ISP uses gcnat then that's a problem. Using a residential IP isn't great for reputation

Pros: It's a very well thought out system
Very few bugs
Excellent documentation
Includes spam protection, webmail and a bunch of other features
itjustworks

in reply to snowydroopz

TL;DR: Stick with Protonmail. There is, based on what you told us, no reason for you to switch to another provider.

I wouldn't recommend Tuta at the time of writing, due the lack of OpenPGP (no, their own EE2E does not act as a solid replacement) and JMAP/IMAP support.

in reply to Voxel

Take it easy on me with the big boy terms haha, you mind explaining them? Except E2E, I know what end to end encryption is, tho idk if EE2E is another thing or just a typo by you

Another user said mailcow, thoughts?

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in reply to snowydroopz

I think they meant E2EE (End-to-end encryption)

OpenPGP is an encryption standard

JMAP/IMAP iirc lets you use other clients like Thunderbird (you won't be able to use 3rd party clients with proton unless you pay for it so take that into account too)

in reply to sakuraba

Isn't PGP what they say to always encrypt any message you send with prior to sending it? Especially on Dread and DNM Bible, never understood how to actually use it though
in reply to snowydroopz

yeah it is used for encryption, in this case mails between proton users can be encrypted using OpenPGP

i recommend to research a bit yourself on these topics and your use case for privacy in this context. email is not private by design.

in reply to Voxel

Hmmm ? Has Proton introduced imap support ? I was going to migrate to them a few years ago until I realised that was missing. Not keen on getting locked into their proprietary app.
in reply to thanksforallthefish

No it hasn't, but with the Proton Mail Bridge you can get close, as it creates a local IMAP server that you can use with any email client - it's far from ideal though and it has plenty of glitches
in reply to elkien

Thanks for the response, yeah that is better than nothing, but if OP hasn't migrated yet then better to choose a provider that isn't locking them into an apple-esque walled garden. If they decide to stop supporting the bridge then you're stuck.

I like proton but they make a few too many weird decisions. I mean imap has been around for a long time, why not use the open standard.

in reply to snowydroopz

This might be an unpopular opinion in this community, but here it goes.

Privacy doesnt really exist with email. Yes, Proton does support encryption, but nobody but Proton uses it. When your bank sends you an email, its plain text, and its pretty much guaranteed its sent from an outlook or gmail server. If they want your data they can get it whether youve got proton or not.

As for me - I actually still use my universities email. Its on outlook, but, hardly anything is sent to it, it never gets flagged as spam, and it doesnt cost me anything and will hopefully be there forever.

in reply to superglue

Never actually thought of it that way, like how no matter what you do, since most of your family uses META, you're indirectly hit by the crossfire
in reply to snowydroopz

Right ya. You're best bet if you want to achieve privacy is to pretty much stop using email as much as possible. Proton is fine, and it is better than say using outlook or gmail, but barely.
in reply to superglue

Privacy doesn't really exist in what way? In a sense that the layperson should be concerned or just a person of interest in a diplomatic position?
in reply to superglue

Nah that's a pretty common (and correct) take. Never email something you wouldn't want to see come up in a court case. Secure email can limit exposure somewhat though. Unless it's the government it may be impossible or at least harder to put things together about you from other email addresses. At the very least every email is not being scanned by Gemini and used to train it. And the more people that use privacy respecting email the more private it is.
in reply to superglue

Came to say the same, the only benefit I see in proton and other providers is not having my email monitored by Google but that's it
in reply to superglue

Yeah, as long as it's not Google, it works. The real trick is to find a good email aliasing service (I use Addy.io) so when email are exposed in a data breach you can just turn it off and avoid spam. Also good for when your trying different emails out because you just have to update what the aliases send to.
in reply to superglue

Your opinion is not unpopular here.

For those that don't know, yes, when Proton or Tuta sends an email to an unsecured provider, it is on the open... if you want it to be that is. You have the choice to tick if you want to send the mail and attachments encrypted or not. If you choose to send it encrypted, they have a link they have to introduce a password to get in. I use this multiple times with somehow sensitive data. At least their email provider won't have the data... now, the recipient may place then that data in Google Docs and that is game over; but that is your party's fault, not your email provider.

in reply to snowydroopz

The real answer isn't don't use email for private communication. It's like asking what's the most private way to shout into a crowded room
in reply to snowydroopz

Everyone telling you email isn’t private is right.

Don’t use it for things you don’t want to be public knowledge.

in reply to snowydroopz

Others have already said similar, but it depends on what you mean by "private" and "secure". Yes, proton is e2e but that only is true if you're emailing another proton user. And yeah, Proton can't read your emails, but as soon as you email someone else outside the ecosystem, it's as good as public.

I'm not saying thou shalt not use proton! But I had a subscription and cancelled. One part because the CEO vocally supported Trump and the doubled down when called out. Another part because I got tired of the proton ecosystem being inaccessible outside its own walled garden because of the e2e.

So I switched to Fastmail and couldn't be happier. Is it perfect, no, but what is? It works well, it's reasonably priced, they've been around forever, and I can use it with apps/programs outside of what they provide.

When it comes down to it, your email will never be truly private unless you only communicate with people who are just as concerned about privacy.

in reply to snowydroopz

in reply to snowydroopz

I've kind of given up on the concept of email as a whole. Nobody emails anymore. Nobody in my family uses email, I've never had a friend who emails me, I'm the weirdo for asking for an email address so I can email you a calendar invite because I'm a weirdo for using the calendar..

Maybe it's just been my experience but does anyone actually use email? And if so what about everyone else's security?

in reply to danhab99

Nearly every account one can make requires email. You may not use email for communication but you do use email.
in reply to snowydroopz

but truly private AND secure is a must.


Remember that email is none of that, unless both people use encryption.

Tuta and Proton both are encrypted, which is great, but the moment you exchange with someone that is not using encryption (aka, the vast majority of people), they're not anymore.

I always considered email like sending a good old postcard: something anyone could read without being invited, just by looking at it.

so I can have control


Be it Tuta or Proton, or any other commercial offering, you won't have real control without owning your actual domain name. Owning it means you can change email provider if/when you wand (and if you don't feel like using your own).

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in reply to snowydroopz

Your purchase it from some registrar.

I'm from France so it probably won't be the same as you, it will cost you a small yearly fee. Like, for example I do own the domain 'thefoolwithapen.com' (my blog) among a few other domain names. So I can use libb@thefoolwith... with either my own email/hosting or most third-party provider, I don't have ti use their own name/domain. Sorry for the lack of specificity in my explanations, I'm everything but an expert ;)

Edit: clarifications

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in reply to Libb

Okay so whenever I buy a domain name, I now can use that domain name on any emai regardless of the email provider (google, proton, etc.) Can the domain name be taken away from me somehow?
in reply to snowydroopz

  1. Depends the email provider, I 'm not sure (quite certain they're not) all are offering that.
  2. Yes. The moment you stop paying as it will most likely be sold for cheap. One of the oldest domain I owned (from the 90s) and got rid of a few years ago is now used by someone hosting porn... Which is kinda funny. Maybe one can also lose it in a trial? But that would be very specific... Say, you own StarWarsSucksHard.com you won't probably own it for long the moment Disney's armies of lawyers focus their attention on you ;)
in reply to snowydroopz

I have a domain and I use email aliases, they're addresses that redirect everything they receive to another address. That way you could for example redirect all emails from John@Doe.com to John.doe@proton.com

When you send emails from John.doe@proton.com, if you want to show the alias' address as the sender, your provider must have support for identities, many do, Gmail does, proton I don't remember.

Btw you don't PURCHASE a domain, you rent it. Usually the basic plans can include limited hosting space for a website, and actual e-mail accounts with storage, but while most also offer webmail portals, they aren't as good an experience as Gmail.

in reply to Damage

Yes, thanks alot, proton does offer email aliases aswell.
in reply to snowydroopz

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in reply to edel

Thank you so much, based on what I understand, your top 2 would be posteo and Tuta, putting the "using your own domain" problem aside, how would you compare them side by side if you had to pick one? Multiple people said Tuta is missing important privacy features like PGP and other stuff
in reply to snowydroopz

From Posteo I cannot say much more since using my own domain is critical.

Tuta, it is indeed missing PGP and that is a problem if you are trying to communicate with someone that uses PGP. Now, Tuta's encryption although no as universal as PGP, you could say it is better implemented since the subject is encrypted (unlike with PGP's). The shortcoming is is that Tuta's encryption only works seamless between Tuta accounts, or the recipient is offered a web link where he/she has to enter a password. In real life, a handful full know to to work with PGP.

So at the end depends on who you intend to send emails to... are part of them PGP users? If yes, get Proton, if not, either Proton or Tuta will be OK, use other criteria to choose between them.

in reply to edel

I still need to properly learn what PGP is beyond an encryption and learn how to use it haha 😅
in reply to edel

I recently switched to Proton, mostly to get out of Gmail and Hotmail.

I did this firstly to get out of the yankee services, not because I trust Proton: their claims of private mail are mostly bullshit, and they do clearly behave like a CIA honeypot, so I don't trust them (as I didn't trust the other two), so I use the free account (also there are increasingly fewer and fewer free options nowadays) just to get emails that I'm more than okay being known, or where my domain emails don't work.

Everything else goes to an assortment of addresses on my webstorage with my domain, running on a national server outside of all the cursed 9/14/etc eyes. Even still I expect them to be fully visible under a court order. But I get no one actively profiting off their info, and get no spam there. So I'm very happy with the change.

in reply to tradclasstruggle

Proton has come with some not outright lies, but misleading advertisements. I understand the thin line that privacy companies have manage between appealing to a larger audience to get economies of scale but not mislead at the same time to achieve that. It is hard for them since we expect prices of other non-privacy oriented providers but with far more complex systems that required far more RAM, more storage, more audits, more special expertise, etc. Proton is a success at Privacy but Tuta I respect more.
in reply to snowydroopz

While there is no way to completely protect your email I am big believer in minimizing vulnerability. It’s somewhat nice to know your email provider at least isn’t reading your direct emails. Most of my correspondence comes from auto reply emails. It’s the same I recommend to people still on Windows or MacOS. Use apps with no telemetry as much as possible. That to me would include email.
in reply to snowydroopz

I'm using Migadu and I'm happy with it. You need your own domain though.
in reply to snowydroopz

Well take a look at their site and all functionality. I don't use a custom domain so that's not a deal breaker for me.I've been using it less than a year, but so far so good.