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Many of us have left the big social media platforms; far more of us *wish* we could leave them; and even those of us who've escaped from Facebook/Insta and Twitter still spend a lot of time trying to figure out how to get the people we care about off of them, too.

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in reply to Cory Doctorow

For the last month I've been announcing on Falbook that I will be cancelling my account before the end of the month.
So, that people should mail me their up to date contact details so we can keep in touch.
Well, just only a very few did so.
The rest will just be a shame, but my ring of people will je be smaller.

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@AngelaScholder goes to show that all the people who didn’t respond, don’t actually use or value the platform for communication.
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@RowinSpeez @AngelaScholder

Or that they're good people who are

a) Overwhelmed by life; or

b) Not seeing the message because of algorithmic ranking that downranks the messages from people you follow in favor of messages that people pay to show you (ads and boosted content).

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@AngelaScholder chances are a lot of them don't use Facebook any more either but never thought about it. Those who do will never be shown your message until 3 days after you leave, judging by when it has shown me time-sensitive messages for the last couple of years
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@NerdRelaxo
The TL, DR is that there are many good reasons people are locked in shitty platforms and we can care about those people and build routes for them to safety.

Yes, it is good to be out and about in the fediverse AND it is good to care about others who are meeting their needs in the best way they can at the moment while we work on evacuating those cesspools and finding ways to get those beautiful babies out of that locked in bathwater

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Another reason to not use Masto, i never followed you
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what a wonderfully inspiring thread/blog post! thank you thank you thank you!

it reminded me of a phrase in pt_BR: "ninguém solta a mão de ninguém", that comes out in en as "nobody let go of anyone's hand", as in "let's not leave anyone behind, and resist together". it went viral at around the time bolsonaro got elected president. it seemed so fitting to (unintentionally?) bring this back to mind on the day trump got reinaugurated.

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I don't know how far #BS is #freeSoftware or not. But from what I know, it is only theoretically "federatable". Instead,it is a centralised, walled garden, it is opposed to our #digitalSovereignty.

We should definetively turn our back on it, before it is too late.

BS is not fine, no matter what cool features it might have.

It is a trap.

Porting useful features to #fediverse software is, of course, the best course of action!

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No, BlueSky is out there and distributed. It's not centralized or walled.

In fact this is one of the beauties of it, it takes down some of the walls around instances here on this platform.

It's LESS of a walled garden.

@pluralistic

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see this is the key captive users and no constraints? That's a contradiction. If the users are captive that's a giant constraint!

No, this is the nonsense that people post around here about BlueSky, and we should identify the silliness.

In many ways that platform is better than this one, and it's worth recognizing that, not fighting against it with arguments so don't really make sense.

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@utopiarte For a person who claims to want to help your friends leave social media, you sure seem to hold them in enormous contempt, offer them no grace, and extend zero empathy to them.
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Well written, well said. I still suspect that the advertising revenues that support these crappy services are a bit of emperor's new clothes, and there's a internet advertising bubble due for a burst. Anyone who has to stay on these parasitic feeds, please ignore, block and don't click any ad links. Do your best to screw with the funding!

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Maybe the collective action problem gets easier in small increments. Like intermittent fasting, but for toxic and #enshittified social media platforms.

I'm deleting all Meta platforms for at least a week. And I'm looking forward to the attention span I get back from just focusing on the Fediverse and real life.

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LB: I think I agree with everything @pluralistic says here. Every time I got to a "but..." [finger raised] place, he either addressed it or went in a different direction than I was expecting.

This also answers my own question about "why not Mastodon?", also asked by many others.

My only question now is "can I get hired to work on this..."

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@ludosansfin This is why we don't have superheroes. Superman would just look like a bully if he had to smack down these utter dweebs. @pluralistic
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@beecycling
One of the early superman issues had him lock a mine owner down in the mine to teach him empathy.

These aren't problems one person solves. Pretending that the wealthy are powerful, that our current money is a game there is no alternative to play, is how we silo our imagination.

Superman needs supervillains, nations need enemies, humans need each other.

We need to imagine something more interesting than these dorks!

in reply to Cory Doctorow

we'll watch the next big protest never happen due to lack of common communication channels. We'll think that a lot of people don't care. That's why dictators and wannabes happily invested in the Twitter black hole purchase. Fragmentation is the goal. What's the next best thing to the assumed benevolent dictator who owns and may sell the place we (a much much larger we) meet and organize?

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@alper
Yes, changing social media will offer some obstacles, but massive and successful protests happened before the Internet and social media existed. Seems incredible now. The 1963 March on Washington for Jobs and Justice surpassed 200,000 and was organized by telephone and in person conversations by Bayard Rustin and team. When certain social media outlets are captured or compromised as organizing tools, the organizing will move to other tools, including texts and (shudder) phone calls.
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@Polyrical @alper

I spent a decade riding a bicycle around the streets of Toronto with a stack of fliers and a bucket of wheatpaste, winter and summer, trying to get people out for mass demonstrations.

It worked, sometimes.

But if you think that we can do that labor intensive work without losing time and capacity to do more meaningful organizing, I have a bucket of wheat-paste I can lend you.

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@alper
Dr. King did it without social media and with the media of the time fully against him. So we need to go back and re-learn the lessons from the civil rights movement.
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@SaftyKuma @alper

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@Polyrical @alper

I spent a decade riding a bicycle around the streets of Toronto with a stack of fliers and a bucket of wheatpaste, winter and summer, trying to get people out for mass demonstrations.

It worked, sometimes.

But if you think that we can do that labor intensive work without losing time and capacity to do more meaningful organizing, I have a bucket of wheat-paste I can lend you.


in reply to Cory Doctorow

the sentiment is densely packed with peripheral intent and action, but I’ve said this for years:

Friends don’t let friends use Facebook.

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As the pup sez, Is ihat fine?

"This is why Bluesky is in a dangerous place: not because it is backed by VCs, not because it is a for-profit entity, but because it has captive users and no constraints. It's a great party in a sealed building with no fire exits"