I just had my first doctor tell me to ‘take off your mask so I can see your pretty face.’

I was there for an issue with my FEET. There was absolutely no reason for me to remove my mask.

I don’t know how much of this was misogyny and how much was related to pandemic politics (ie perhaps this doctor resents having to mask)… but I was incredibly uncomfortable with his remark.

I declined - as politely as humanly possible - and the whole tone of the appointment changed. I didn’t even get a diagnosis - I was told that the issue on my ankles was ‘not as ugly as I think’ ( I didn’t think it WAS ugly) and sent on my way.

I waited 18 months for this appointment - and the ‘issue’ is likely related to my vEDS and possibly severe. Multiple other doctors have expressed concern but said I had to wait for a specialist.

When patients are treated this way - it causes harm. It causes a distrust of the medical system. I can’t just ‘get a second opinion’ when the first one took 18 months.

When I’m less angry I may write an article about this - because patients (especially female presenting) deal with this crap FAR too often.

In the meantime - this experience underscores why we must always have an advocate with us in healthcare settings. It shouldn’t be this way - but it is.

My article on how to be the best possible advocate for a disabled patient: https://www.disabledginger.com/p/how-to-be-an-effective-advocate-for

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Austrian woman convicted of negligent homicide after infecting her neighbour with COVID (they died).

The woman had tested positive & told her doctor she wouldn’t isolate.

I always ask if people would change behaviour if they had to face a person they killed…is this a no? It was her second offence.

I worry people can’t conceive that THEY are responsible for someone’s death or disability. They just blame the virus. When the virus only caused harmed because someone infected another person. This woman could have isolated. She could have worn a mask. She knowingly went out while infectious and positive … and someone died.

Does anyone know if any other countries have pursued similar cases? I was genuinely shocked to see this - but I think it needs to happen. People need to be held accountable.

https://www.thecanadianpressnews.ca/health/austrian-woman-is-found-guilty-of-fatally-infecting-her-neighbor-with-covid-19/article_90e041c1-c362-5eec-90d3-f21d4c33cc0f.html

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Cara was bullied for masking at school and eventually stopped… only to infect her high risk mom with covid. Her mom died.

Governments & public health should be blamed for this - not Cara. But I’m sure she will feel guilt the rest of her life. This is where “you do you” leads.

It shouldn’t be up to kids to protect their high risk family members. They aren’t prepared for the amount of bullying and peer pressure they will face to de-mask. We need to be dealing with this at the institution level. Clean air in classrooms. Paid time off for sick teachers and staff. No more attendance awareness and punishing sick kids for staying home. No more “diarrhea scales” to indicate whether your child can come to school with Covid diarrhea (your kid should be home if they have diarrhea). Negative tests should be required to return to the classroom.

I lost my mom to cancer when I was 19… and it fundamentally altered my entire life. Losing your Mom at a young age is a dreadful experience - and I can’t even imagine the grief and guilt this young girl is facing.

Her life is going to be forever altered. I hope she’s wrapped up in a cocoon of support and love and that it’s made clear to her every day that she was failed by systems and institutions. We must do better. The grown ups and those in charge NEED to protect the kids so no child is ever in this position.

Lastly - don’t bully a kid who’s masking. It’s hard enough for them and you don’t know who they’re trying to protect. Leave them be or better yet - put on a mask yourself and show them some support and solidarity.

https://www.independent.ie/opinion/comment/tess-finch-lees-if-parents-dont-fight-to-protect-children-from-covid-in-schools-nobody-else-will/a1357930715.html

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