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Were you referred to as “the weird kid” growing up / Do you consider yourself to be “weird” as an adult?

#AskFedi

  • Not weird kid / not weird adult (3%, 9 votes)
  • Weird kid / not weird adult (8%, 20 votes)
  • Not weird kid / weird adult (5%, 13 votes)
  • Weird kid / weird adult (82%, 200 votes)
242 voters. Poll end: 4 days ago

in reply to lifewithtrees

Therelation between the two questions confuse me. One is about public perception, the other as self insight.

I see not reason to consider myself any weirder today as I'd consider myself in my youth, but I can imagine a whole bunch of #neuroblands disagreeing with both assessments.

in reply to 🌸 Vårgubben

@jordgubben i am curious if those perceived as “weird” as a kid see themselves as “weird” as an adult. Even in today’s classrooms kids use weird as a pejorative (something which never really resonated with me as a weird kid by others and weird as an adult of my own admission.

Also I’ve not heard neurobland. Can you share more on that?

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in reply to lifewithtrees

Oh.

#neurobland is the opposite of #neurospicy.

So like #neurodivergent vs. #neurotypical, but without the connotation that the later would be more common (or even "healthier").

If you have not hear about it before it's because I came upp with it ca 10 minutes ago.

in reply to lifewithtrees

@spiegelmama I did cultivate the weird kid vibe because it confused and repulsed the bullies so they couldn't stick anything.

Feel less weird after growing up because I'm more accepted and I've found my people.

in reply to craignicol

@craignicol Interesting! I figured out I was weird because nobody really bullied me. Then I realized that they tried, but nothing they did hurt my feelings. Then I remembered a strange conversation and realized the girl was trying and failing to pick a fight with me. I'm mostly still the same weirdo I always was, too.