🧵Have the allowance of Husband [H] to write very openly about this + since it helps me to share... I'm #actuallyAutistic, from 2013-last Friday we believed that he [like me] is #actuallyADHD. Think this is an exquisite constellation that needs "management"? You're right, but Life just shouted: "Hold my beer, take THIS!" and floated our life with an explicit psychosis, hospital psych ward experience for him+my occasional meltdowns. Now he's #bipolar, ADHD wasn't true.