It's funny how some people say they joined because our instance is Finnish. It's true that I'm Finnish and our servers are located in Finland, but we don't promote ourselves as a Finnish instance, nor are we otherwise tied to Finland.
English is my second and quite dominant language, and half of my family tree is Australian. In short, all cultures and languages are welcome here.
Languages currently used on mementomori.social:
1. Finnish
2. English
3. French
4. Swedish
5. German
6. Korean
7. Dutch
8. Catalan
9. Japanese
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in reply to Roni Rolle Laukkarinen • • •I think it does fill a niche for people (like me) who care about Finnish things and want a local timeline which often features posts about Finnish happenings, but who don’t (exclusively) post in Finnish.
The best experiences are often impossible to categorise.
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in reply to Roni Rolle Laukkarinen • • •I’d consider joining for some insights into why Finns are the happiest people in the world, or on the off chance someone else has watched Crime On Your Mind and has some thoughts.
There are people who like to make the trite observation that “people are the same everywhere” but when I watch Finnish TV, I think, “They must be really different over there.”
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in reply to Kerry Mitchell 🍁 • • •@KerryMitchell It's a genuinely interesting question because as a Finn, it doesn't always feel like the happiest place on earth and I think most Finns would squirm a little at that label. We're not really a "loudly happy" culture.
But I do think we've built some things well, and it's worth being honest about that. Free education at every level, universal healthcare, low corruption, a legal right to access nearly all forests, lakes and coastlines (Everyman's Rights), and workplaces that in theory and often in practice actually value your time outside of work. Trust in public institutions is high, and income inequality, while not perfect, is significantly lower than in most wealthy countries. Those aren't small things. They shape the texture of daily life in ways that are easy to take for granted.
What the happiness ranking really measures, I think, is whether the basic machinery of a society is functioning, whether people feel safe or whether they can make real
... Show more...@KerryMitchell It's a genuinely interesting question because as a Finn, it doesn't always feel like the happiest place on earth and I think most Finns would squirm a little at that label. We're not really a "loudly happy" culture.
But I do think we've built some things well, and it's worth being honest about that. Free education at every level, universal healthcare, low corruption, a legal right to access nearly all forests, lakes and coastlines (Everyman's Rights), and workplaces that in theory and often in practice actually value your time outside of work. Trust in public institutions is high, and income inequality, while not perfect, is significantly lower than in most wealthy countries. Those aren't small things. They shape the texture of daily life in ways that are easy to take for granted.
What the happiness ranking really measures, I think, is whether the basic machinery of a society is functioning, whether people feel safe or whether they can make real choices about their lives, and whether bad luck or a wrong turn doesn't completely destroy you. By those measures, Finland does reasonably well.
That said, there's plenty that's wrong or struggling here too housing costs in cities, an ageing population, mental health challenges (the 6 months of dark winters don't help despite your location, in the North it's dark all year), and a political conversation that isn't immune to the same pressures pulling at other European countries. The happiness ranking can sometimes feel like it belongs to a slightly idealized version of Finland that glosses over those things.
I think the honest version is that we've made good structural choices over decades, and those compound. It's not magic or national character, it's policy, and it's fragile. You have to keep choosing it. Just my 2 cents.
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"What the happiness ranking really measures, I think, is whether the basic machinery of a society is functioning, whether people feel safe or whether they can make real choices about their lives, and whether bad luck or a wrong turn doesn't completely destroy you."
That's perfectly put.
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I remember going out on the town in Liverpool a few years back with my brother.
I went outside for a smoke and saw some chap crying, so went up to him and gave him a hug. It was a Finnish guy, passably drunk, crying because he was going home the next day. It may have been November, which I guess would explain why he was enjoying the Costa Del Mersey.
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in reply to Kerry Mitchell 🍁 • • •@KerryMitchell I’m afraid I don’t watch Finnish TV and I’ve spent so long here I’ve gone native in many ways, but I think the “happiness” thing boils down to:
1. public services (mostly) work
2. you can trust other people and feel safe (mostly)
3. the state is (mostly) competent when it comes to worrying about, and dealing with, the big things
There are lots of caveats to all of these, but then there are in every country. And the whole Finnish happiness thing is I think, really overanalysed. Including by me, just now… 😅
It’s not about being happier so much as it is about feeling like there are no bad surprises lurking around the corner, literal or metaphorical.
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